Thomas Stelling
Certified Trainer since 2014
Born in 1967 in the North of Germany with a long lineage of ancesters from that region.
I have been interested already in social change since my childhood. But neither studying social sciences, history, international relations or the activism of non-governmental organizations nurtured my longing - only NVC did eventually.
2004 I encountered Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and met Marshall Rosenberg in Switzerland. Since then, I learned especially from Beate Ronnefeldt, Markus Sikor/Fischer, Kelly Bryson, Monika Flörchinger, Laurence Reichler, and many others.
Since 2009 I run yearlong NVC programs around Lake Constance. I love supporting people for some years in their personal (and sometimes also professional) development, offering also "Facilitation & Training", "Empathic Coaching," "NVC Mediation," and "NVC Leadership."
Apart from trainings, I facilitate, I coach and mediate — and support social organizations in team development or organizational development.
I have been trained in NARM (Therapy of Developmental Trauma) a couple of years with Laurence Heller and have studied with Thomas Hübl (Transparent Communication & Integration of Collective Trauma) since 2008 (TWT1, Pocket Project, CTFT).
Beginning 2025 I will start a tour to do workshops on "NVC and (Collective)Trauma" (in German). I like to share and explore withs other how important (integrating) trauma is in our lives, what being trauma informed and trauma sensitive means, and how all this relates to NVC.
I currently follow a project to research and lecture about the "Roots of NVC" (in German). I continually publish the lectures as podcast first (see https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wurzelndergfk) and plan to write a book about it in 2025/26. By the way, these are the one's I looked at (with date of birth):
1869 Mahatma Gandhi
1878 Martin Buber
1900 Erich Fromm
1902 Carl Rogers
1905 Viktor Frankl
1905 Dag Hammarskjöld
1906 Hannah Arendt
1908 Abraham Maslow
1921 Paulo Freire
1928 Gene Sharp
1929 Martin Luther King Jr.
1931 Riane Eisler
1932 Manfred Max-Neef
1933 Stanley Milgram
-----------1934 Marshall B. Rosenberg (as reference)
1935 Walter Wink
1957 Alfie Kohn
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